Thursday, February 7, 2013

First Week at Sheltering Arms

As I sit by your bedside watching you sleeping peacefully, I am so grateful for your life, your unique sparkle, your youthful resiliency, and your undaunted spirit. You have attacked every task put before you with grace and determination and continue to make friends and followers with your quick smile and characteristic thumbs up approach to every hurdle. When your new speech therapist asked you what YOUR goals were you quickly responded, "I want to practice speaking and work on my wit and knowledge"! We all laughed because we know and love your wit!

To be honest Forrest, after the first rough day of your nausea, fighting to keep you from sliding down in a heap on this rental hospital bed, managing your 6'3" frame in this tiny bathroom, your glazed expression at unholy hour you had to face the day...I fell into bed thinking why in the world did we leave the comfort and familiarity of home? But you reminded my why over the next two days, as you greeted each new therapist with a smile, walked 865 FEET on their Zero Gravity treadmill, worked your shoulders until they trembled with the effort, and bravely said "more" each time your therapists asked if you needed a break.

And yes, you get terribly frustrated. Your growl will stop us in our tracks. But now more often than not, you will follow that primal sound of displeasure with a quiet, "I got it." Or "wait a minute". You are working so hard to share your own thoughts, feelings, and opinions on just how things should be done! Sometimes it's a gargantuan task to find the word you're searching for. Sometimes the wrong word comes out, but you are finding increasingly complex and subtle ways to express yourself. And after so long waiting and praying for you to find your voice, we cherish each message you have to tell us.

As the sun comes up today we are eagerly packing to return to BrightWood, for the week-end. We will miss our new friends here, but have lots of homework assignments to complete before you charge back into the program again on Monday.

With your bring it on attitude, the Medical Teams diligent nursing care, and Tami to keep us all organized AND laughing, we CAN do this . And you WILL rebuild your life and future, one day at a time. With love & gratitude, Mum

Check out the pictures below and the following YouTube link for a video of PT from Sheltering Arms:  http://youtu.be/9iO4Af9y-qU

4 comments:

  1. If we could only bottle your willingness and sell it....there are so many lacking what YOU have! Hurrah for the successes of the week and the doctors and therapists and nurses and Tami and mom and dad who are all helping you in this process. So very proud....and our prayers for you continue...

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  2. FORREST YOU REALLY ARE A UNIQUE AND STRONG INDIVIDUAL. I'M PROUD TO HAVE SOMEONE LIKE YOU AS MY GRANDSON. AND YES! HAVING JUST READ AUNT LYNN'S COMMENT - LET ME BE THE FIRST TO GET A BOTTLE OF YOUR'WILLINGNESS',GOD WILLING-:) AND BLESSINGS FOR YOU AND ALL OF YOUR TEAM 44. YOU'VE BEEN, SINCE YOU WERE A SMALL TWO OR THREE YEAR OLD SO ROBUST ABOUT ACCOMPLISHING WHATEVER YOU SET OUT TO DO - FROM WRESTLING WITH BROTHER AUSTIN TO GETTING GOOD GRADES AT SCHOOL! I KNOW YOU WON'T STOP AND PLEASE TELL TAMI I SAID 'HELLO' :)LOVE YOU, GRANDMOM

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  3. What a great place to expand your knowledge Forrest! You really are awesome like your shirt says and your support team is too! Keep up the great work! We love you!

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  4. I LOVE all the pictures and videos, Forrest! They are so great!! Your walking on the treadmill is wonderful--what a neat contraption! Like your Grandma Norma said, send me some of the bottled energy, too. I would LOVE to have it!!

    Love, Joyce and Wilbur Ellis

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