With unending gratitude for the generosity of family and friends, Mum
Hey Forrest,
Last
time I was here at BrightWood was almost 10 months ago. I was here for a
few weeks helping out. Back then, you still needed support to attempt
walking. First we had to get you into a special seat harness with lines
attached to this rolling walking crane
that hovered over you. Then we
would activate the crane's electric motor to help lift you to standing
position and also take up some of your body weight as you stood. It
took all the strength you had to walk 20 steps across the Man Cave. It
took 4 people to make it happen. One person faced you with your hands on
their shoulders to guide you. One person had to operate and roll the
crane, one person was on their knees to help you begin to lift your left
foot up to initiate a step. And a nurse was next to you to take vitals
and operate suction if necessary. In the beginning, we would stop
about half way across the room and the nurse would take your blood
pressure and pulse. Sometimes you would need to sit down in your
wheelchair, which was always close by, like a loyal tired dog.
Fall of 2012 |
September 2013! |
Sometimes
we sat across from each other, so close our knees touched, and
slowly passed a nerf ball underhand to each other. Sometimes you would
miss the ball and sometimes your hand could not release the ball. I
never saw you get angry, you just kept trying. This was just a small
part of your daily routine. Your physical therapy was arduous, every
day, and you were always ready for more.
Then this Saturday,
I watched in awe as you walked down to the side of the house to toss
the football with your Uncle Clarence, your Aunt Lobie's husband. From
twenty feet away, you tossed the football with Clarence for at least
thirty minutes. You spiraled the ball about 95% of the time, caught
almost every toss and never seemed tired of the play.
Then
with your mom on one side and your nurse on the other, you walked
across the pastures, unlatched four gates, and walked into the stable
aisle where you were welcomed with the neighing of horses and the smell
of scattered straw. Then you stood on your own, while holding Finn's
lead line, as he grazed on warm September grass.
It
was a wonderful day. I continue to be amazed at your progress and
grateful for all of the numerous people who have touched this family's
life as you have found your way home to us again.
Love Aunt Tricia
Those are some GREAT pictures of you and thanks Aunt Tricia for the wonderful story of some of the good times you guys shared. That picture of you getting ready to pass the football is quite the handsome shot! Well done all!!
ReplyDeleteThanks Aunt Tricia! Your wonderful words bring it to life, I can smell Finn's pasture scent and see the football fly through the air. It's ALMOST as great as being there. September in VA is a wonderful time and it's much more magical with amazing friends and family members like you, Lobie, and Clarence to share it with, thanks for writing this update! How much of a difference a year makes!
ReplyDeleteLove,
Austin
Oh, Forrest, how true it is, what Austin and Trish said. Just tonight I was going through pictures on my phone before updating it, and I found pictures of the first time I came to DC and saw you when you came home from Atlanta~and many pictures of hospital visits following that, pictures of when you first came home...and oh, my, what a difference a year makes, to say the least. The air is full of hope and joy around BrightWood, and you are the source. Love you so much, bud, so super proud of you. xx
ReplyDeleteI am so happy for you Forrest! You have made such great progress in this past year that it is just amazing. Give those horses a good petting and scratching for me!!
ReplyDeleteLove,
Joyce and Wilbur Ellis in Missouri
Forrest,
ReplyDeleteIt is just amazing and all the progress you have made just makes me smile every time I read a post. Keep up the great work and the picture of you with the football is awesome! I was able to meet your dad when he was here in Bolivar, told him how I have prayed for you daily. Your accomplishments thrill me!!!!!